Blissfully Inspired

Do or Don't: Including your furry friend

Tue, 21 May 2013 19:38:32 GMT

Although I don't have a dog myself, I am an animal lover and totally understand how dogs can become a true member of the family. While it can be a little tricky to incorporate dogs into the wedding day itself,...

Dear Becca and Casey...In-Laws and Exes

Mon, 20 May 2013 13:00:33 GMT

Dear Becca and Casey, I just found out that my mother-in-law to be is bringing a date, even though we made clear there are no dates allowed. My fiance's parents had a messy divorce, and the last thing I want to do is see old wounds opened up during the wedding.

Weekend Wedding Inspiration

Fri, 17 May 2013 15:48:00 GMT

Have a great weekend, everyone! Here are a few links to inspire you as you enjoy the lovely spring weather. A beautiful traditional Japanese wedding in Tokyo. Love the incredible BHLDN gown at this New Hampshire wedding. Doing your own...

Do or Don't: Heels for a tented wedding.

Wed, 15 May 2013 14:00:00 GMT

Hey ladies - this post is directed to you (sorry grooms)! If you're getting married on a farm, in a garden, under a tent, ignore the debbi downers and don't be afraid to rock out in your favorite heels! Don't let a little dirt scare away your height love. I say make it work, and get your jeweled beauties messy in the mud, it is your wedding after all. Go all out for the best possible memories, your big night is not the time to be on guard against sullied footwear.

Dear Inspired: Cocktail hour query

Mon, 13 May 2013 15:20:32 GMT

Dear Becca and Casey, In planning my wedding (I decided to forgo a wedding planner), I am finding the timeline to be the trickiest part. My question is about the cocktail hour. I'd like to have plenty of time for...

Do or Don't: Doing your own wedding-day makeup

Wed, 08 May 2013 14:58:28 GMT

Unless you are Kate Middleton, who famously did her own makeup on her wedding day, or have some major makeup skills and experience, I have to say this one is a DON'T. It's easy enough to do your own makeup,...

Dear Inspired: Defending my daughter

Mon, 06 May 2013 13:00:00 GMT

Dear Becca and Casey, My daughter, the Groom's (my wife's brother) niece, was asked to be the flower girl in his wedding months ago. We've ordered her dress and she was excited about the wedding. Yesterday, 3 months prior to the wedding, my brother-in-law told my wife he expected my daughter to go home after the ceremony as no kids are invited to the wedding. My wife and I are very upset and feel that our daughter should be allowed to enjoy a meal and some dancing as part of the wedding party. Are we out of line? Thanks, Defending my daughter

Weekend To Do

Fri, 03 May 2013 13:00:00 GMT

Have nothing to do this weekend? Here are a few options to get you out and about this beautiful weekend.

Styled; A Look into mStarr Event Styling + Design

Fri, 26 Apr 2013 13:00:00 GMT

Last week Casey and I had the pleasure of oo'ing and ahh'ing over the details and thoughtfulness that go into everything MStarr Event Design and Styling touches. As Emily defined what styling weddings really means to her, we began to grasp the reach of her incredible service. If youre a bride who loves great accents (like we do), whether you need a little guidance or soup-to-nuts support, Ems your gal. Check her website out here.

Do or Don't: Skipping the cake

Wed, 24 Apr 2013 17:37:41 GMT

If you were stranded on a desert island and could only have one dessert every day, what would it be? If the answer is not cake (and for most people, it's not), then skipping the wedding cake is a DO!...

Stay safe, Boston.

Fri, 19 Apr 2013 16:16:12 GMT

It's been a rough week for our beloved city. It's been amazing to see how Boston has pulled together to help those in need, and I have no doubt that we will continue to do so. Let's all cross our...

Do or Don't: A Social Media Free Wedding

Wed, 17 Apr 2013 14:20:18 GMT

This past weekend my husband and I were in Vermont with friends for a site visit. Being that this particular wedding is to celebrate said friends, we got to tag along for a whole weekend of fun activities. Over our dinner Saturday night the bride-to-be posed an interesting question that sparked some good discourse. How to cordially ask guests to not post pictures on Facebook or Instagram during the wedding or even the week after? In this day and age, is it possible to limit the intimacy of a wedding to just the close family and friends who are present? A way to not invite our myriad other, digital "friends" into the sacred occasion?

Dear Inspired: How do I deal with the "plus-one" issue?

Mon, 15 Apr 2013 16:11:00 GMT

Hello Ladies! We are inviting about 250 guests to our wedding this year, and are paying for most of the wedding ourselves. Over much debate, we made a financial decision to invite our guests without a + 1 (unless they...

Do or Don't: Receiving lines

Wed, 10 Apr 2013 16:24:45 GMT

While receiving lines can be a bit long and tedious, I have to say that they are still a major DO. You may want to spend the time taking photos or doing something else, but it's important to remember that...

Dear Becca and Casey...Detailed in Boston

Mon, 08 Apr 2013 15:40:34 GMT

Dear Becca and Casey, I'm one of last of my friends to take the plunge, and it seems there are SO many more outlets now for inspiration even than just 3 years ago. Between my daily check-ins to SMP, Once Wed and Pinterest, I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed with details and projects. Do you know if this is something I can hire a planner to take care of?

Have a wonderful spring weekend!

Fri, 05 Apr 2013 14:23:14 GMT

I don't know about you all, but I am DONE with cold weather. It seems to me that we may finally be out of the woods! It should be a perfect weekend to be outside - do you have wedding...

Do or Don't: Picking a Unique Wedding Song

Wed, 03 Apr 2013 12:27:05 GMT

What?! Were you thinking of clutching each other close for "Lady In Red"? I say do do do! Pick a song that's special to you as a couple but also that has a little spark to it. You don't need to show off for any of your guests, or feel pressure to pick a "hot" song, just be totally true to the nature of the two of you for your first dance.

Dear Inspired: Should I do an engagement session?

Mon, 01 Apr 2013 16:31:48 GMT

Dear Becca and Casey, I just booked my wedding for next summer (July 2014), and now I am booking a photographer. I am trying to decide whether or not I need engagement photos taken. What are some of the pros...

Dear Inspired: Bridal Shower Help

Mon, 25 Mar 2013 15:00:20 GMT

Dear Becca and Casey, I'm writing in as the maid of honor to a bride. I live here in Boston, and she is all the way in St. Louis. I am having a hard time taking on the shower alone, however I fear that it is too burdensome to ask the other maids who live in St Louis to take over the planning. Am I thinking too much?

In the studio with: Tryst Beauty

Fri, 22 Mar 2013 13:14:04 GMT

From time to time, we'd love to feature local vendors who we think are truly fantastic. We have worked with these people and believe in their brands. We thought it would be fun to bring you our collection of curated...

Do or Don't: Mason Jar Centerpieces

Wed, 20 Mar 2013 14:30:00 GMT

Many brides ask me about using mason jars for reception centerpiece vases. From my point of view as a floral designer, they're a don't. Hear me out.

Dear Inspired: Should I book local vendors for a destination wedding?

Mon, 18 Mar 2013 18:45:29 GMT

Dear Becca and Casey, I have a question for you! I am getting married in the Dominican Republic next year, and I am just starting to research vendors. I know of some local vendors who I really love, but I...

Inspiration alert! Carats and Cake!!

Fri, 15 Mar 2013 13:11:33 GMT

So, what's this have to do with weddings? Well, Kate of Pluck PR, who I mentioned before, last night she introduced us all to Carats and Cake. Yup folks, not the kind you bite, the kind that bling. It's this amazing new site where both vendors and past brides can share their weddings and brides-to-be can ooohhh and aaaahhh as they plan their perfect day. Now head on over and check it out!

Do or Don't: Emailing your thank-you notes

Wed, 13 Mar 2013 16:18:37 GMT

In this day and age, it is rare to receive a handwritten note. Email is used for everything from scheduling appointments to inviting friends to an event to sharing exciting news. However, wedding thank-you cards are one thing that should...

Have a wonderful wintry weekend!

Fri, 08 Mar 2013 15:57:50 GMT

What are you up to this weekend? Hopefully you can stay inside with a warm drink and enjoy this winter snow through the windows. Spring is nearly upon us (looks like we might hit 50 on Tuesday!) but for now,...